lol, i might be the opposite. i'm only friends with some guys so i can purchase or get some for free.My only beef lately is that most of my male frienships are based off of smoking weed, and now that I've quit smoking as much, I feel like I'm losing friends.
How is me saying seek professional help "professional advice"? Someone trained to help someone in that situation is far and away better than internet randoms.Right. And instead of giving out input, we should instead go with the professional advice of "Go see a psychiatrist." We're trying to help, and have a bit of human contact with him, not just see him as another sick in the masses. By giving out advice, I think most of us are showing that we "care" (And please don't say some shit about caring doesn't work, because quite frankly, our society is built on human contact and caring for one another).
Funnily enough I already do both of these things and am quite advanced in bothWhat you should do is take up an instrument or do some art. I know it sounds stupid, but finding something you can totally lose yourself in is great for when you're in those moods :\. Just getting lost in scales or shading can give you time to think/distance yourself from the problem.
I've never felt that to be helpful. Yes, there are children in Africa who have been orphaned by AIDS, but that doesn't affect the kid in America whose parents just went through a bad divorce or something similar. He doesn't know how it feels to be an orphan, even though he can probably guess that it feels worse than his situation, but that doesn't change that he is feeling worse than he ever has in his life.Pragmatism: you have it easier than at least 5 billion other people on this planet.
Human Psych.. a deep subject. Well.. I never felt like a complete failure. If I have failed, I blame the society that I was brought into and try to correct it for my own happiness (although I do acknowledge my mistakes if I come upon it). I was extremely spoiled as a kid (material-wise) and I could have been something really great because I was so spoiled happily. But because I was so stubborn as a kid, I wasn't the renaissance man I could have become. I regret it and my laziness stems from me being stubborn.Like, every thing I do seems to go wrong. Either I have to act like a complete deadbeat or I end up physically hurting someone or embarrassing someone or fucking up a friendship. No matter how much I try just every fucking thing goes wrong for me
anyone else ever get huge, multi-year stretches like this? what to do? :/