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If you want to claim activity for mnm tour you can, orion the sylveon hasn't been on since signing up, and you made some effort at contact. Make sure you get your match done earlier next time though.
Well, there are just pussies, no matter how rude that is, who get agitated by someone watching them. Pointing them to "Ignore Spectators" job and teaching them to use the "/hideroom" command is just too much of an endeavour